Be Like Dillion!

Last week I attended a 4-Day Book Writing Challenge presented by Hay House, hosted by Reid Tracy and Kelly Notaras. This was my third time attending this challenge. I feel like I learn something new every time I attend. The challenge gives you daily assignments and prompts to get you on the path to writing a book or push you to complete a book that you may be working on. I am not really ready to write the kind of book I want to write, but it doesn’t hurt to have some pointers before I start. I actually do have a book that is about 75% to 80% completed. The book is for my nephew and it should have been done. Unfortunately, I have stalled out 🤦🏾‍♀️. I would like to finish this book before I start on another one.


The challenge provided guidance on how to write a hook, genre categories for the books that people normally write and other pertinent information. Honestly I need to go back and figure out what genre this book falls under. Or maybe not. I know that the hosts said if it is non-fiction to include examples and stories to get your point across. Now, here I was thinking that I will make a copy specifically for my nephew and then go back and edit out all the stories I included. Yet, based on the information I received from the challenge, not only do I need to leave the stories in, I may need to add more stories. Now the book is probably only about 60% completed. There is a strong chance that most of the participants and I are just overthinking this whole book writing thing. Actually, I know we are.


An 8 year old boy by the name of Dillon Helbig, wrote and illustrated an 81 page book over the course of a few days. He then proceeded to take said book to his local library and put it on the shelf in the children’s book section. The book was in a hard covered journal and he labeled it with the title, “The Adventures of Dillion Helbig’s Crismis.” Dillon told his parents about his accomplishment. The parents worried the librarians would find it and dispose of his book, contacted the library. Well, the librarians decided not only will they not throw away his book, but they would put a sticker on it and allow people to check it out. Dillon’s one-of-a-kind story now has a wait list of 56 people. And if I lived in Idaho, I would be the 57th person. I am so intrigued as to what he wrote in his book.


Dillon, after the success of his first novel, is now busy at work on his second novel, “The Jacket Eating Closet.” Ummm…is this not a lesson or what? Here I am in the fifth year of writing my blog with less than 100 people reading it regularly because I don’t want to put myself out there. I have actually just started to tell more people about my blog within the last year and a half. This young man has written a book and has 56 people at the time of the news report, I am sure there is more now, waiting on a hold list to read his book. It really isn’t that hard now is it?


Many of us have lost our childlike enthusiasm, creativity and confidence. We have experienced some shit that has shut us down. We do not see the world through the eyes of an 8 year old and that is totally understandable. Life gets complicated as we get older. Our childhood dreams are forgotten. Or believed to be unachievable, are dismissed. But, what if we picked one thing we wanted to accomplish and approached it like a child? What if we didn’t allow any self-doubt to cloud our minds?  What if we just did the thing? What if we kept it a secret like Dillion until it was completed? What if? Oh, the places we will go.


I am sure if I was to draw any pictures, they will look like an 8 year old did it 😆. But I have to say, Dillion is inspiring me to not care about the minor details. I want to be like Dillion when I grow up. I want to pursue my dreams in life with childlike abandon. I want my book on library shelves, whether I have to sneak it in there or it is there legitimately. The Hay House 4-Day Book Writing Challenge was informational and inspiring. But I have to say, Dillion Helbig has inspired me a great deal more. I set my goal for the completion of my book for the end of February. If Dillion can write and illustrate a book in 4 days, why can’t I finish a 60% completed book by the end of the month? No reason why.


Looking for inspiration, look to a child. They are everything we want to be as adults. Find your motivation in their imagination. See the possibilities through their eyes. The world is their oyster and it is yours as well. This year I am going to be pushing you and calling you out in these posts because I want you to finally do the thing, whatever it is. I want you to stop making excuses, procrastinating and being overwhelmed with self-doubt. I want for you what you want for you. And I am also talking to myself with each and every post. I am not out here crushing it. I am not checking goals off my list every week. I, too am suffering from indecision, lack of clarity and lack of confidence. After reading that article, I have a new mantra for when I know I am not doing my best. Be Like Dillion! And also be well and whole. Much Love


Here is a link to read one of the many articles written about Dillion Helbig.


https://www.upworthy.com/8-year-old-handwritten-book-waiting-list?rebelltitem=1#rebelltitem1

 

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Black Facts: Eatonville, Florida and Other Black Towns

Photo Courtesy of Kehana Wills

I recently visited my cousin who lives in Winter Park, Florida. She drove me around and showed me the area, lakes, houses, parks and historical sites. We rode through the town of Eatonville, Florida. Eatonville, incorporated in 1887, is considered to be one of the first black American towns. Being as I had never heard of it before visiting my cousin, I was definitely interested in this town’s story. I was able to get a couple snapshots, but nothing substantial. My cousin, however, attended a historic walking tour in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and Zora Neale Hurston in Eatonville, where she was able to get some good pictures, which I will be sharing in this post.

In my research of looking up little known black facts, I discovered that there is a few different towns claiming to be the “first” black incorporated town. I appreciate how Eatonville’s website says it is one of instead of the first. There is a town called Allensworth located in California that was labeled as the first Black town in an article I read. I can only assume the person who wrote the article did not do their research. Allensworth, founded in 1908, was the first Black California town. I, of course, felt the need to dig deeper and put in the search, “What was the first black town?” Eatonville was the first town to pop up. Cute, but we all know to not use the first thing that pops up in Google. As I scrolled down, Brooklyn, Illinois came up next. Brooklyn is labeled as the “first” as well and they may actually be able to claim that title. Brooklyn, Illinois was started in the 1820s and incorporated in 1873, fifteen years before Eatonville and thirty-five years before Allensworth.

Here is a link for continued reading on Allensworth, California,

https://artsandculture.google.com/exhibit/allensworth-california-state-archives/mQLiVfAd-6y4JA?hl=en

Here is a link if you are interested in reading more about Brooklyn, Illinois,

http://www.histarch.illinois.edu/Brooklyn/index2.html

Now, I still didn’t want to overlook any other towns, so I continued to scroll. Yep, another one popped up. Now, to give this town some credit, they did not say they were the first incorporated town, just the first town. This is starting to become a mess. Mose, located in Florida, was stated as the first legally sanctioned black town established in 1738 for runaway slaves. Now, if we are skipping the incorporated part, I believe that Mose, Florida is the winner as the first black town. Here is a link to read more about Mose,

https://www.floridamuseum.ufl.edu/histarch/research/st-augustine/fort-mose/

Photo Courtesy of Kehana Wills

Town of Eatonville, Florida


Back to Eatonville. Eatonville was a town founded by newly freed slaves from Georgia, Alabama and some other northern states in 1880. The cornerstones of early Eatonville were church, school and family. St. Lawrence African Methodist Episcopal Church was the first Black church in the area.

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St. Lawrence A.M.E. Church

Eatonville was the birthplace of novelist Zora Neale Hurston.

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Local Barbershop and Zora Neale Hurston National Museum of Fine Art

Here is the link to the town’s website. You can read about the town’s history and current events on this site,

http://www.townofeatonville.org/about/

Photo Courtesy of Kehana Wills

Mural in Eatonville, Florida
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One of the stops on the Eatonville Walking Tour.



At this point, I don’t know who the clear “first” was and I am sure if I keep looking, I will find more. What I do know is, Black people were fighters. They were resilient in the face of adversity and had a strong desire to make the best of a horrible (and this is an understatement) situation. You can find Black History in every state of this country, if you look. Stories that don’t just involve slavery. Black history is so much more than that and always has been. During this Black History Month, let’s learn a little history and do some of our own research. Stay well and whole. Much Love 🧡💚

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I’m Black and I’m Proud

“The differentness of races, moreover, is no evidence of superiority or of inferiority. This merely indicates that each race has certain gifts which the others do not possess.”

Dr. Carter G. Woodson

This Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, I got on my soap box. I was general upset with the energy that is put into this holiday. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. absolutely deserves the honor and respect. But it usually doesn’t extend past his day of recognition. There is not a display of energy year round to make his dream a reality. Some things that I say here may offend people, but I don’t care. As a woman, who happens to be black, that lives in America, I have a problem. I have a problem with the way black people are treated in America. And it gets bigger if I look at the way black women, in particular are treated. This is usually when people get upset and bust out the all lives matter talk. No one has every denied that. It is great that people are able to see the big picture, but let’s not miss the details.


We have one national holiday where we honor one man for his contributions to this country in regards to black people. We have one month where we highlight the achievements of black people in this country. And each year they recycle the same facts and the same people. Yet there is so much more black people have contributed and continues to contribute to this country. Why are we not talking about that?

Okay, so if I have a problem, my job is to find the solution or be the solution. I will be the solution. Each week I will post about a little known Black History fact, person or event, including current ones. Whatever I find that educates and intrigues me. And if it is something that you already know, good. If not, even better.

As a black person, I know how diverse and unique we are. I love my culture and my people. I dislike when we are stereotyped by ignorant people, experience discrimination based on passed down racist beliefs and ostracized for our differences. Expected to assimilate to fit in, when what we bring is needed and helps to make this world better. I love the skin I’m in. And if I had to do it all over again, I would want to come back as a black woman with my ex-boyfriend’s hair and a couple inches more on the height 😆. Seriously, not joking. And I hope that everyone loves themselves in the same way, no matter what your race is.


So here is a quick Black History fact.


Dr. Carter Godwin Woodson is known as the father of African American History.  Dr. Woodson was an author, editor and historian. Dr. Woodson founded the Association for the Study of Negro Life and History in 1915 because he realized that black people’s contributions and history was going to be overlooked and excluded from the history books. In 1926, Dr. Woodson launched Negro History Week observed the second week of February to raise awareness and celebrate Black History.  Dr. Woodson wrote over 30 books on Black History including The Mis-Education of the Negro, The Negro in Our History and The Journal of Negro History.


You can read more about Carter Woodson at these links,


https://www.wvstateu.edu/about/history-and-traditions/carter-g-woodson.aspx


https://www.history.com/news/the-man-behind-black-history-month


I am going to be honest, I have not done much research into black history before. The facts I know are the same ones that the majority of the population are familiar with as well. This will be educational and informational for me. I am looking forward to digging in and finding nuggets of Black History that have not really been discussed. If you know any lesser known Black History facts, please don’t hesitate to share them with me. Stay well and whole. Much Love  🧡💚

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